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North Dakota Parenting Plan

North Dakota uses 'parental rights and responsibilities' language and requires a parenting plan addressing decision-making and residential responsibility.

Document
Parenting plan
Court
District Court
Decision-making called
Decision-making responsibility
Parenting time called
Residential responsibility

Build your North Dakota residential schedule

Choose a pattern and get the exact overnight counts your parenting plan needs to state.

Schedule pattern

50/50

Each parent keeps the same two weekdays every week and the weekends alternate, producing a repeating 2-2-5-5 night pattern.

January 2026

  • Parent A
  • Parent B

Tap any night to switch parents.

A parenting plan is the written document that tells the District Court, and, afterwards, both households, where your children are on each night of the year and who decides what. Once the court signs it, it is an order rather than an agreement.

North Dakota uses the term residential responsibility for the time the children spend with each parent, and decision-making responsibility for the authority to make major decisions. Drafting in the state's own vocabulary avoids questions at filing and makes the plan easier for the court to read.

What a North Dakota plan needs to cover

1

Residential schedule

Which parent the children are with on every night of the year, including how the regular rotation works and when it starts.

2

Holidays and school breaks

How Thanksgiving, the winter holidays, spring break, summer and each child's birthday are divided, and how the rotation alternates between years.

3

Exchanges and transportation

Where exchanges happen, at what time, who does the driving, and what happens when someone is running late.

4

Decision-making

Who decides on education, medical care, religion and activities: jointly, or with one parent having the final say in specific areas.

5

Communication

How the parents contact each other, how each parent contacts the children during the other's time, and what counts as an emergency.

6

Changes and disputes

How the parenting plan gets changed later, notice periods for relocation, and what the parents will try before returning to court.

Filing in North Dakota

Custody and residential responsibility matters in North Dakota are heard in the District Court. Forms, filing fees, mediation requirements and local rules differ between counties, and they change, so confirm the current requirements with the court where you are filing before you prepare anything final.

The North Dakota judiciary publishes its current forms and local rules at ndcourts.gov. CustodyPlan is not affiliated with any court.

Choosing a schedule that works in North Dakota

The schedule is the part of the plan you will actually live with, and the part every other section depends on. Start from your children's ages and the distance between the two homes, then pick the pattern that fits both.

North Dakota questions

What does a North Dakota parenting plan cover?
Decision-making responsibility, residential responsibility and the parenting-time schedule, along with the practical arrangements for exchanges and communication.
What is a North Dakota parenting plan called on the court forms?
North Dakota refers to it as a parenting plan, filed in the District Court. The state uses "decision-making responsibility" for decision-making authority and "residential responsibility" for the time each parent spends with the children. Check the current forms published by the North Dakota judiciary before filing, as forms and local rules change.
How many overnights do I need for a North Dakota plan?
Whatever your schedule actually produces, and the plan should state it precisely. In most states the overnight count feeds into the child-support formula and into how the arrangement is classified, though a few states, Texas among them, set guideline support from income alone. The calculator on this page gives you the exact annual figure for the schedule you choose.
Can I write my own parenting plan in North Dakota?
Parents routinely prepare and file their own agreed plans. Where North Dakota publishes a mandatory or preferred form, work the schedule and figures out first and then transfer them onto that form. Having an attorney review the plan before you sign is advisable, particularly if the two of you disagree on anything substantive.
CustodyPlan is a document-preparation tool, not a law firm. We do not provide legal advice, and using CustodyPlan does not create an attorney-client relationship. We are not affiliated with any court. Have your completed plan reviewed by an attorney or your local court before filing.